date someone no one else you know has ever met. date a bedridden friend who lives in the country. date someone whose death knell sounds every time you want an excuse to get out of a social obligation. date bunbury.
I thought I was going to school to be other people, but really, what I learned was to be myself - accepting myself, my strengths and weaknesses. -Lupita Nyong’o
What’s the difference between america and yogurt?
If u leave yogurt alone for 200 years it will develop a culture
this was like the sickest burn I’ve ever seen
Live stream of a reporter dude who is on the ground in Ferguson.
robin williams died today.
here is a list of things that robin williams was:
- and sad.
that’s important, the “and sad,” because sometimes sadness can feel like the only thing we are. it can feel all-encompassing. it can feel like the only thing anyone could possibly see, when they look at you: sad. that person is so, so, sad.
but there is always an “and.” we are never just sad. we are never only. we are always and.
we have all known people who were sad, who are sad; some of us are ourselves sad. being sad does not remove the other parts of us, though it can make them harder for us to see. when you are sad, you don’t necessarily feel like you are also funny, and sharp, and clever, and kind.
but you still are. you don’t have to feel like something to be it.
those things are written on your bones, they are woven into the fabric of your skin. sadness can feel so big, so big and overwhelming and complete, even when it is not a directed sadness. maybe especially when it is not a directed sadness, when it’s a depression that has no direct cause and nothing we can name.
sometimes the sadness is too big. people try to cut it out, or starve it out, or drink it down, or drug it silent. if this is you: i’m sorry. if this is you: you are not alone. if this is you: remember that the solution is never to give up, because you do not live in a vacuum. there are people waiting for you. there are films and songs and books and not-sadness waiting for you. i know that you don’t feel like waiting, but wait anyway.
if you need help, ask for it. here’s a link to crisis centers across the globe. if you live in the U.S., this is the national suicide prevention hotline: 1-800-273-8255.
robin williams died today, but the genie didn’t, and mrs. doubtfire didn’t, and peter pan didn’t. sean maquite didn’t, and professor philip brainard didn’t, and alan parrish didn’t. batty koda didn’t. john keating didn’t. you didn’t.
but first, let me take a selkie (steals a mythical half-seal creature from scotland)
batmanvoice answered to your post “hey grimmy fans who have met him!!! i need your help! i’m going to…”
Lily (blamefincham) put together a post a while ago: http://blamefincham.tumblr.com/post/89429780836/so-you-want-to-meet-nick-grimshaw
omg this is exactly what I needed! I can’t thank you enough, you’re an angel! (and thanks to @blamefincham too!)
get to know me meme: [6/8] male characters ✴ ben wyatt"I’m not afraid of cops. I have no reason to be. I never break any laws, ever, because I’m deathly afraid of cops."